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1. True Self's Blueprints
True Self Blueprint is spiritual guidance in the form of graphics, hidden patterns that are not always clear at first sight, and a wisdom that can be followed. It’s a collection of different slides put together.
1.1 Self-Concept
1. Self-concept is your internal belief of who you are, based on past memories and associations (e.g., "I am Peter," "I am successful"). This self-concept is always viewed in relation to your environment.
2. When you view the world from the perspective of your body, your experience will be much heavier and denser, perceiving the world as a character who has to fight for their place in the world. But when you view the world from a higher perspective, you suddenly realize who you truly are. The truth is that you are your innermost essence that is projected outward in your energy, mind, and body.
3. There is only one universal substance, and you are an individual aspect of this substance. Recognize that you are not separate from your innermost essence always present within.
Exercise 1: "I AM" Statement Practice
Concept: Self-Concept, The Law of Correspondence, Expanding Consciousness
Description: This exercise helps you become conscious of your self-concept and intentionally shift it towards your true essence.
Steps:
- Identify Current "I AM" Statements (Journaling): Take 5-10 minutes to write down all the "I AM" statements that come to mind. These can be positive or negative (e.g., "I am tired," "I am a good friend," "I am stressed," "I am successful," "I am not good enough"). Don't censor yourself.
- Observe Your Self-Concept: Review your list. How do these statements make you feel? How do they relate to your experiences in the world?
- Craft True Self "I AM" Statements: Based on the text's idea of your "innermost essence" and "one universal substance," create new "I AM" statements that reflect your desired true self (e.g., "I am an individual aspect of universal substance," "I am peace," "I am love," "I am capable," "I am aligned"). Aim for statements that feel expansive and resonant with a higher perspective.
- Reflection: At the end of the day, notice any shifts in your perspective, feelings, or interactions. Did embodying these statements change how you experienced events?
1.2 Mind
4. There is only one universal substance and one state of mind. That is sometimes called the infinite living mind. This infinite living mind is not separate from our material world and our physical reality. The inner world and the outer world are one.
5. Our thoughts, emotions, and attitudes expressing as anger, fear, and sadness can also be manifested as limiting beliefs and attachments, control, and lack. Our thoughts, emotions, and attitudes correspond to our mind, energy, and spirit. The microcosm reflects the macrocosm.
6. Our life journey doesn't happen linearly, but happens in cycles based on our consciousness.
Exercise 2: Observing the Inner-Outer Mirror
Concept: The Inner World & The Outer World, The Law of Correspondence
Description: This exercise trains you to see your external reality as a reflection of your internal state, rather than a separate set of circumstances.
Steps:
- Choose an "Event" or Situation: Select a recurring situation or specific event in your life that causes you some level of discomfort, frustration, or joy. (e.g., "My car always breaks down," "I keep attracting difficult colleagues," "I feel consistently joyful in my creative work," "I struggle with financial abundance").
- Identify the External "Event": Clearly define what's happening in the outer world.
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Explore the Internal "Potential": Ask yourself:
- What are my dominant thoughts and emotions related to this event/situation?
- What underlying beliefs do I hold about this? (e.g., "I am unlucky," "People are always difficult," "I am naturally creative," "Money is hard to come by").
- Are there any "attachments" (expectations, fears, unforgiving thoughts) tied to this situation?
- What is my "internal state" when I think about this? (e.g., anger, victimhood, gratitude, lack, abundance).
- Connect the Dots: See how your internal "potential" (thoughts, emotions, beliefs, state) could be manifesting as the external "event." How is your internal state being reflected?
- Shift the Internal: If the reflection is undesirable, consciously attempt to shift your internal state. If you feel lack, try to cultivate a feeling of abundance. If you feel anger, try to cultivate acceptance. This isn't about denial, but about choosing a different internal vibration.
- Observe without Expectation: Continue to observe the external situation. The text says "there is no connecting link between these events and no time difference." This means the shift in the outer world might not be linear or immediate, but by changing the cause (your internal state), the effect (outer event) will eventually align.
1.3 The Unknown
7. When we want to expand beyond our comfort zone, we need to step into the unknown. The unknown is the unfamiliar way of life that goes beyond our identity. We expand when we get a realization from a direct experience that will open our eyes to the truth.
8. Hurdles that we feel when we want to expand beyond our current identity are our limiting beliefs. You have your current self-knowledge '' I think I AM that''. This is what you already know about yourself. When you step into the unknown, you will feel a sense of resistance ''I feel I AM not that''. You won't feel like that kind of person who is supposed to experience this. That's why you will run away back to the known way of life that feels familiar and comfortable.
9. When we want to expand into the unknown, we need to lift ourselves up towards the perspective of self. We can't expand from the limited perspective of our 3D character.
Exercise 3: Intellect-Driven Expansion
Concept: Ego and Intellect, The Unknown, Expanding Consciousness
Description: This exercise helps you differentiate between your ego's protective mechanisms and your intellect's capacity for conscious direction and expansion.
Steps:
- Identify an Area for Expansion: Think about an area of your life where you want to grow, learn, or expand your consciousness beyond your current comfort zone (e.g., starting a new project, learning a new skill, engaging in a challenging conversation, pursuing a new belief system).
- Recognize Ego Resistance: As you contemplate this expansion, notice the "sense of resistance." What thoughts or feelings arise that try to pull you back to the familiar? (e.g., "You're not good enough," "It's too risky," "What will others think?"). This is your ego functioning as a "protective mechanism."
- Distinguish Ego vs. Intellect: Acknowledge the ego's voice, but consciously recognize it as a protective mechanism, not your true self. Now, engage your "intellect" – your "conscious will with the ability to direct our attention."
- Direct Your Attention (Inner Will in Action): With your intellect, purposefully direct your attention towards the desired expansion. Visualize yourself successfully engaging in this new area. Feel the positive emotions associated with it. This is your "inner will directing the attention."
- Embrace the "Unfamiliar Way of Life": Instead of running back to the "known," mentally commit to stepping into the "unfamiliar way of life." This doesn't mean blindly jumping in, but cultivating a willingness to explore and learn.
- "Have Faith in the Revelation of Your Truth": Trust that as you direct your attention and expand your energy, the necessary realizations and opportunities will unfold. The goal isn't to force an outcome but to align with the unfolding.
1.4 The Inner World & The Outer World
10. There is only one substance, one complete whole. The inner world, the world of unseen and infinite, has potentials. The outer world, the world of seen and temporary, has events. The potentials in the inner world can be materialized as events in the outer world. But there is no connecting link between these events and no time difference. Events are simply unfolding from the source of the All.
11. Everything will run away from you, if you feel separate from it. When we are trying to get our desires that feel separate from ourselves, there is a resistance, a connecting link that is holding us back. If there is separation or a perceived distance between you and your desire, how are you supposed to get it?
12. There is only one substance, the law. The law can't give you what you can't take, because you can take only who you really are. There can't be separation between the subject and the object, because they are one.
1.5 Attachments
13. Expectations are a form of attachments or outcome-based happiness. It is our self-importance and our wants, needs, and desires that we project into the future. On the other hand, our purpose is to embody our true self, our state in any given moment. As your true self, you don't live by the expectations of the future, therefore you are present and can welcome all things.
14. Attachments can be also created when we perceive separation between ourselves and other people. This typically arises in the scenarios, ''us versus them''. We usually hold any type of anger or resentment towards other people for things that happened in the past. This is why we are still connected to these people until we let go.
16. The events that materialize in our 3D world are unfolding not in linear order. There is no connecting link between these events and no time difference. Everything exists now. The illusion of separation that we project in our 3D world is false. The events are not separate from each other because they are unfolding from the same source. With our human mind, we try to make sense of everything that is why we see the linear order of things.
17. We often fear things, people, and situations that are about to unfold in the future. We feel an internal resistance to what we are afraid. There is an attachment to fear that we don't want to let go. Release that connecting link by not taking action towards the problem. Let it be there. It will dissipate.
18. You need to move from the awareness of fear towards the awareness of love. What you are conscious of being will unfold in our physical reality. Your internal state is reflected in the outer world because they are one.
19. You need to perceive your truth by living it. Embody your truth without first seeing tangible results. Have faith in the revelation of your truth. Your internal state is not separate from your physical reality. Observe and study the physical reality and you will learn about yourself. The objective reality and our subjective experience are interdependent.
20. We can also be attached to a problem that we currently have in our lives. It means we either resist, run away, or run towards the problem, fighting it. There is still connecting link between us and that problem. When we resist the problem, we are afraid of what we don't want. In this way, we are still in vibrational alignment with the problem. Whatever you resist, persists. To deal with any kind of problem, we shouldn't fight it or run away from it. We should look look at it, and see it for what it is. That way we release anything that was still holding us back.
21. When we want to release resistance (feelings) in our body, we need to penetrate deeper to the different layers of our subtle and causal body by directing our attention inward. All the layers of our physical, mental, energetic, and spiritual existence exist now. There is no separation between them as they influence each other.
Exercise 4: Releasing Resistance ("Let It Be There")
Concept: Attachments, Resistance, The Unknown
Description: This exercise directly addresses the concept of resistance and aims to help you release attachments to problems or fears.
Steps:
- Identify a "Problem" or Fear: Bring to mind a current problem you are facing or a fear you are holding onto (e.g., a difficult relationship, a financial worry, fear of failure, fear of a future outcome).
- Acknowledge the Resistance: Notice where you feel resistance in your body when you think about this problem/fear. Is it tension in your shoulders? A knot in your stomach? A sense of unease?
- Identify Your "Action" Towards the Problem: Are you fighting it? Running away from it? Obsessing over it? Trying to control it? These are all forms of "taking action towards the problem."
- Conscious Non-Action ("Let It Be There"): Instead of reacting, consciously decide not to take action towards fighting, running from, or fixing the problem in that moment. Mentally or verbally state: "I see this problem/fear, and I choose to let it be there. I am not fighting it, nor am I running from it."
- Direct Attention Inward: As the text suggests, "penetrate deeper to the different layers of our subtle and causal body by directing our attention inward." Focus on the sensation of resistance and simply allow it to be there without judgment. Breathe into it.
- Shift Awareness (from Fear to Love): If you feel fear, consciously attempt to shift your internal awareness towards love, acceptance, or peace regarding the situation. This doesn't mean loving the problem itself, but cultivating a state of love within yourself.
- Ongoing Practice: This is not a one-time fix. Whenever the resistance arises, repeat steps 4-6. Over time, you will notice the "connecting link" dissipating.
1.6 Expanding Consciousness and True Self
22. In the inner world, the world of unseen and infinite, we need to first recognize our true self, "I think I AM that." We then realize by being conscious of our true self, "I feel I AM that," which happens through a direct experience by embodying our true self.
23. When we combine our prior knowledge of our true self with a direct experience, we expand our state of consciousness. As a result, we gain wisdom and move up the scale of consciousness.
24. We have our prior self-knowledge about ourselves, "I think I AM that." So when we are conscious of being our true self, we are feeling that, and we are experiencing that as our state. So when we purposefully enter this state and have faith in the revelation of our true self, we become that. As a result, we get a state of inner knowing, our inherent oneness with the source.
25. We need to recognize our internal cause. So when we embody our true self and its inner qualities of being, We experience oneness with the source. On the other hand, when we identify with our body and perceive that as ourselves, we experience separation from the source.
26: Our being comprises various aspects: physical, mental, energetic, and spiritual. The spiritual aspect is consciousness.
1.7 Ego and Intellect
27. When we identify with our mind and body and perceive that as ourselves, our ego-mind creates stories. Either pointing out past failures, lack, and limitations, or or keeping you attached to the future expectations. The past and the future are merely an illusion. They do not exist.
28. We need to distinguish our ego and our intellect, because they are not the same. Our ego-mind functions as a protective mechanism, directing us back to familiar old self. Our ego is the sense of self, especially self-importance. On the other hand, our intellect is our conscious will with the ability to direct our attention. Inner will directs the attention, and attention expands the energy of our being. In this way, we can step into the unknown, the divine essence.
29. We can't recognize the cause of everything, because the inner world is the world of unseen and infinite. This inner world is reflected in the outer world in the form of events. You can't change these events because they are already reflected. Everything exists now. The inner world and the outer world are not separate from each other. They are one complete whole.
30. When we step into our ego and the sense of self-importance, we often create distortion in the form of increased energy. This energy then needs to be balanced by forces.
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3. Recommended Books
If you read further down below, you can find summaries of all the books, including 'How To Change Your Self-Concept & Become Your True Self' with its ten chapters.
The Law of One: the Ra Material
The Kybalion: A Study of the Hermetic Philosophy of Ancient Egypt and Greece
Hawkins, D. R. (2004). Power vs. Force
Goddard, N. The Power of Imagination
Zeland, V. (2004-2016). Reality Transurfing: Steps I-V.
Campbell, Thomas. My Big TOE: My Big Theory of Everything, Book 3: Inner Workings
Cayce, Edgar. The Children of The Law of One & The Lost Teachings of Atlantis.
Carl G. Jung. The Undiscovered Self: The Dilemma of the Individual in Modern Society
Beyond Good and Evil by Friedrich Nietzsche
The Kingdom book by Paul Selig
How To Change Your Self-concept & Become Your True Self
Book Summaries
The Law of One
"The Law of One" (also known as the Ra Material) is a series of channeled conversations with an entity called Ra. Here's a summary of its key concepts:
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The Law of One:
- The central principle is that all things are one. There is a fundamental unity to all existence.
- This unity is rooted in the "One Infinite Creator."
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Consciousness and Evolution:
- The material explores the nature of consciousness and the evolutionary journey of souls.
- It describes different "densities" of consciousness, representing stages of spiritual development.
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Service to Others/Service to Self:
- A core concept is the choice between "service to others" and "service to self."
- These represent different paths of spiritual progression.
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The Nature of Reality:
- The books delve into the nature of reality, exploring concepts like time, space, and the purpose of existence.
- It also explores concepts of healing, and how understanding the Law of One aids in that process.
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Ra's Role:
- Ra identifies as a "social memory complex" that has evolved to a high level of consciousness.
- They offer information to help humanity in its spiritual evolution.
In essence, "The Law of One" presents a complex and philosophical worldview that emphasizes the interconnectedness of all things and the importance of spiritual growth.
The Kybalion: A Study of the Hermetic Philosophy of Ancient Egypt and Greece
"The Kybalion," published in 1908, presents a set of seven Hermetic principles that are said to govern the universe. Here's a concise summary:
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Core Idea:
- The book aims to explain the fundamental nature of reality through these ancient Hermetic principles, attributed to Hermes Trismegistus.
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The Seven Hermetic Principles:
- The Principle of Mentalism: "The All is Mind; The Universe is Mental." This means that the universe is essentially a mental creation.
- The Principle of Correspondence: "As above, so below; as below, so above." This principle emphasizes the interconnectedness of all levels of existence.
- The Principle of Vibration: "Nothing rests; everything moves; everything vibrates." This explains that everything in the universe is in a state of vibration.
- The Principle of Polarity: "Everything is Dual; everything has poles; everything has its pair of opposites." This highlights the duality inherent in all things.
- The Principle of Rhythm: "Everything flows, out and in; everything has its tides; all things rise and fall." This describes the cyclical nature of existence.
- The Principle of Cause and Effect: "Every Cause has its Effect; every Effect has its Cause." This emphasizes the law of cause and effect.
- The Principle of Gender: "Gender is in everything; everything has its Masculine and Feminine Principles." This principle refers to the generative principles present in all things.
In essence, "The Kybalion" offers a philosophical framework for understanding the universe and our place within it, emphasizing the power of the mind and the interconnectedness of all things.
Hawkins, D. R. (2004). Power vs. Force
"Power vs. Force" by David R. Hawkins explores the fundamental difference between these two forces and how they influence human behavior and consciousness. Here's a breakdown of the key concepts:
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Core Concept:
- The book distinguishes between "power," which is life-affirming and originates from inner strength, and "force," which is coercive and stems from external sources.
- It proposes that these forces have measurable effects on our well-being and the world around us.
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Map of Consciousness:
- Hawkins introduces a "Map of Consciousness," a scale ranging from 1 to 1000, which calibrates levels of human consciousness.
- Lower levels on the scale represent "force" (e.g., shame, guilt, fear, anger), while higher levels represent "power" (e.g., courage, love, joy, peace).
- A critical threshold is identified, with values below 200 indicating "force" and values above 200 indicating "power."
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Power vs. Force Characteristics:
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Power:
- Is associated with truth, integrity, and positive emotions.
- Is sustainable and life-enhancing.
- Draws others in through attraction.
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Force:
- Relies on coercion, manipulation, and negative emotions.
- Is ultimately weakening and destructive.
- Creates resistance and opposition.
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Power:
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Applied Kinesiology:
- The book discusses the use of applied kinesiology (muscle testing) as a method for calibrating the levels of consciousness.
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Impact on Life:
- The book argues that understanding the difference between power and force can lead to significant personal and societal transformation.
- By aligning with power, individuals can experience greater well-being, make more positive choices, and contribute to a more harmonious world.
In essence, "Power vs. Force" provides a framework for understanding the energetic dynamics that shape our lives and offers a pathway to higher levels of consciousness.
Goddard, N. The Power of Imagination
Neville Goddard's teachings, particularly those compiled in works like "The Power of Imagination," center on the profound idea that our imagination is the key to shaping our reality. Here's a summary of his core concepts:
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Imagination as God:
- Goddard equated the human imagination with the divine. He believed that our imaginative faculty is the creative power that manifests our experiences.
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The Law of Assumption:
- His central principle is the "Law of Assumption," which states that whatever you assume to be true will become your reality.
- This means that by vividly imagining and feeling the reality of your desires, you can bring them into being.
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Feeling Is the Secret:
- Goddard emphasized the importance of feeling the reality of your desired outcome. It's not enough to simply visualize; you must embody the feeling of having already achieved it.
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Living in the End:
- He advocated "living in the end," which means imagining and feeling as if your desire has already been fulfilled in the present moment.
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Revision:
- Goddard also taught the technique of "revision," which involves using your imagination to rewrite past events. By changing your perception of the past, you can alter its influence on your present and future.
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Key takeaway:
- Essentially, Goddard's work teaches that consciousness is the only reality, and that by mastering our imagination, we can master our lives.
In essence, Neville Goddard's teachings offer a powerful approach to personal transformation, emphasizing the creative power of our inner world.
Zeland, V. (2004-2016). Reality Transurfing: Steps I-V.
"Transurfing" by Vadim Zeland presents a unique model of reality and a set of techniques for navigating it. Here's a summary of the key concepts:
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The Space of Variations:
- Zeland proposes that there exists an infinite "space of variations," containing all possible realities. Every potential outcome of every event already exists within this space.
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Lifelines:
- Within the space of variations are "lifelines," which are specific paths of reality. Our thoughts and actions influence which lifeline we move along.
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Pendulums:
- "Pendulums" are energetic structures created by groups of people who focus their thoughts and energy on a particular idea or object. These pendulums can drain our energy and influence our lifelines.
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Transurfing:
- Transurfing is the art of consciously choosing and moving along desired lifelines, rather than being swayed by pendulums or reacting to circumstances. It's about "sliding" into the reality you want.
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Intention:
- Zeland distinguishes between "inner intention" (willpower) and "outer intention" (allowing reality to unfold). He emphasizes the importance of using outer intention to achieve goals with minimal effort.
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Reality as a Mirror:
- The book suggests that reality reflects our thoughts and beliefs. By changing our inner world, we can change our outer world.
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Key takeaway:
- Essentially, Transurfing provides a method for consciously influencing reality by understanding the nature of the space of variations and learning to navigate it effectively.
In simpler terms, it's about learning to ride the waves of reality, rather than fighting against them.
Lao Tzu. Tao Te Ching.
The "Tao Te Ching" is a foundational text of Taoism, attributed to Lao Tzu. It's a collection of short, poetic verses that explore the nature of the Tao, or "the Way," and offer guidance on how to live in harmony with it. Here's a summary of its core themes:
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The Tao:
- The Tao is the fundamental principle underlying all of reality. It's described as an unseen, unnamable force that flows through everything.
- It's often characterized as being like water: formless, yielding, and yet powerful.
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Wu Wei (Non-Action):
- A key concept is "wu wei," which translates to "non-action" or "effortless action." This doesn't mean doing nothing, but rather acting in accordance with the natural flow of the Tao.
- It emphasizes spontaneity, simplicity, and avoiding unnecessary striving.
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Yin and Yang:
- The "Tao Te Ching" reflects the principle of yin and yang, the interconnectedness of opposing forces.
- It highlights the importance of balance and recognizing the complementary nature of seemingly contradictory elements.
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Simplicity and Humility:
- The text advocates for a simple life, free from excessive desires and ambition.
- It emphasizes humility, recognizing that true strength comes from yielding and being receptive.
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Naturalness:
- The "Tao Te Ching" encourages living in harmony with nature, aligning oneself with the natural rhythms of the universe.
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Governance:
- The book also offers guidance on leadership, advocating for rulers to govern with simplicity, compassion, and non-interference.
In essence, the "Tao Te Ching" provides a philosophical framework for living a peaceful, balanced, and fulfilling life by aligning oneself with the Tao.
Campbell, Thomas. My Big TOE: My Big Theory of Everything, Book 3: Inner Workings
Cayce, Edgar. The Children of The Law of One & The Lost Teachings of Atlantis.
"Children of the Law of One" draws heavily from the readings of Edgar Cayce, particularly those concerning ancient civilizations like Atlantis, and the spiritual evolution of humanity. Here's a summary of the key themes:
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Ancient Civilizations and Spiritual Conflict:
- The book delves into the history of humanity, focusing on the alleged existence of advanced civilizations like Atlantis.
- It describes a spiritual conflict between two groups: "The Sons of the Law of One" and "The Sons of Belial."
- "The Sons of the Law of One" sought to live in harmony with the divine, emphasizing unity and service to others.
- "The Sons of Belial" pursued self-centeredness, materialism, and control.
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The Law of One:
- The core principle is the "Law of One," which emphasizes the interconnectedness of all beings and the unity of all creation.
- This concept suggests that all souls are part of a single, universal consciousness.
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Reincarnation and Spiritual Evolution:
- The book incorporates the concept of reincarnation, suggesting that souls progress through multiple lifetimes to learn and evolve.
- The conflict between the two groups continues through these reincarnations.
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Spiritual Guidance:
- The material aims to provide spiritual guidance, encouraging individuals to align themselves with the "Law of One" and cultivate love, compassion, and service.
- It also gives warning of the dangers of self service, and the problems that come from a materialistic viewpoint.
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Edgar Cayce's Readings:
- It is important to understand that the information within this book is derived from the trance readings of Edgar Cayce. These readings are considered by many to be psycic in nature.
In essence, "Children of the Law of One" presents a spiritual history of humanity, highlighting the ongoing struggle between forces of unity and forces of separation, and emphasizing the importance of living in accordance with the "Law of One."
Carl G. Jung. The Undiscovered Self: The Dilemma of the Individual in Modern Society
Beyond Good and Evil by Friedrich Nietzsche
5. Definition
We all have a unique experience through which we see the world. To define something, we need a perspective. To understand my perspective, you need to have definitions of unfamiliar words, phrases and concepts. Some things or concepts can be defined because they don't exist within our dual world.
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- Attention: The focusing of mental resources on a particular stimulus or aspect of the environment.
- Authenticity: Being true to oneself, genuine, and sincere in thoughts, feelings, and actions.
- Awareness: Conscious recognition or understanding of something. In this context, it refers to self-awareness, the understanding of one's own character, feelings, motives, and desires.
B
- Beliefs: Deep-seated convictions about oneself, the world, and others. These beliefs shape our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
- Boundaries: Limits and expectations that individuals set for themselves and others in their interactions. Healthy boundaries protect one's well-being and autonomy.
C
- Consciousness: The subjective experience of being aware of oneself and the world around. It encompasses sensations, thoughts, feelings, perceptions, and the sense of self.
- Confidence: A feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities, and judgment.
D
- Defense Mechanisms: Unconscious psychological strategies used to protect oneself from anxiety and other unpleasant emotions. Examples include denial, repression, and projection.
- Desires: Strong wishes or longings.
E
- Ego: In psychoanalytic theory, the part of the personality that mediates between the id (instincts) and the superego (moral conscience).
- Emotions: Feelings that arise in response to experiences.
- External validation: Seeking acceptance from the outside.
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- Free-will: In a relative sense, can be seen as a violation of someone else's learning experience.
- Forgiveness: Letting go of resentment and anger towards oneself or others.
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I
- Identity: A sense of who one is, including personal characteristics, values, beliefs, and social roles.
- Inner convictions: Your inner attitude towards yourself.
- Inner Critic: A negative internal voice that criticizes and judges oneself harshly.
- Inner essence: The core of who you are, a subconscious part of ourselves.
J
- Judgment: Forming an opinion or evaluation of something or someone.
K
- Knowing: Arises from your being; your instinctual self
- Knowledge: Arises from outside; information from outside sources.
L
- Limitations: Constraints or restrictions that hinder growth and development.
- Love: A deep and abiding affection for oneself and others.
M
- Mind: A state of being, constantly changing and evolving.
- Mindfulness: Paying attention to the present moment without judgment.
N
- Needs: Essential requirements for physical and psychological well-being.
O
- Objective reality: Your subjective perspective is interwoven with objective reality.
P
- Perception: The process of interpreting sensory information to understand the environment.
- Personality: The unique and relatively stable patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that characterize an individual.
- Perfectionism: The unrealistic expectation of oneself to be flawless.
- Purpose: A meaningful aim or objective in life.
R
- Relationships: Connections with other people, including family, friends, romantic partners, and colleagues.
S
- Self-Acceptance: Accepting oneself unconditionally, including both strengths and weaknesses.
- Self-Awareness: The ability to recognize oneself as an individual entity distinct from the external world. This includes introspection and reflection on one's own thoughts and feelings.
- Self-Compassion: Treating oneself with kindness, understanding, and forgiveness.
- Self-concept: Concept that we identify as ourselves. It is how we define ourselves.
- Self-Criticism: Harsh and negative judgments of oneself.
- Self-Doubt: Lack of confidence in one's abilities and worth.
- Self-Esteem: How one feels about oneself, including feelings of worth and value.
- Self-Knowledge: Understanding of one's own strengths, weaknesses, values, and beliefs.
- Self-Love: Deep and abiding affection for oneself.
- Self-Sabotage: Behaviors that hinder one's own success and well-being.
- State of consciousness: Current perception of ourselves in any given moment.
- Subjective Experience: The unique, personal way in which an individual perceives and experiences the world. It's the "what it's like" aspect of consciousness.
T
- The Absolute: Nameless; without beginning and the end; origin of all things.
Trust: Belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something.
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